Nearly everyone would like to receive an erotic massage by their sexual partner, that is, if its done well. When done poorly, receiving an erotic massage is painful, either literally or figuratively. I once had a man massage the sides of my belly. All the while I could only think, Why? Thats one of the few places where I have no muscles or tendons. Its just fat. Why the hell is he jiggling my fat? Then, when he started massaging parts of my body that could release tension and increase arousal, he didnt apply any pressure. It felt like he was typing on my back.